My dating history and my experiences in the “seduction community” go hand-in-hand.
I had my first real girlfriend when I was 16. We had known each other since we were about 8. We dated a few times but she was, unbeknownst to me, dating a guy in his 30s at the same time! Yep. So nothing much happened between her and myself — just some makeouts in the car — but it was a coming-of-age sort of thing for me.
The next girlfriend I had was a year later. We were at some geeky party and she was for some reason interested in me and struck up a conversation. I was in a pissy mood and blew her off rudely. This of course inflamed her desire for me. I soon wised up and asked her out. Lost my virginity to her at 18. She was more likely more experienced than I, but I’ll never know for sure. We dated for 3 years.
We broke up in college, right around the time I started reading a site called Speed Seduction (seduction.com) by Ross Jeffries. I also started reading, and posting in, a USENET forum called alt.seduction.fast. I was 20 at the time. This was back in the mid/late-1990s.
I studied how to invoke “embedded commands,” “weasel words,” stuff like that. And I’ll say they do work. They do work. I remember trying some out on my little 3-year girlfriend in college before we broke up. At first she said, “You sound like a salesman.” But after a few times her eyes got all wide and loving and she said, “You know just what to say!”
It also worked on the next chick I started dating, a girl 5 years older who was dating one of my friends. I sort of stole her off of him, and made an enemy in the process.
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